During a first appointment, if some questions burn your lips, there is something better not to ask …
HOW DO YOU FIND ME ?
“Uh … Until then, well, but no more at all” … That’s what might happen if you ask this question that has the art of breaking the spell. You will know soon enough whether or not you made a good impression, so keep a little bit of mystery.
ARE YOU FROM RIGHT OR LEFT?
Ah, politics … Even after years of life together, the subject is hit. So, do not ask her tonight whether she voted Sarkozy or Hollande in 2012 or what he thinks of the ongoing reforms. Thorny issues that can very quickly degenerate.
HOW MUCH WERE YOU?
Do not forget that we are in France and that money is a taboo subject. Even more during a first appointment: he (she) might believe that you want to his bank account … Bad start.
HOW MUCH DO YOU DO?
Ask a young woman (especially if it is a little round) how much it weighs is not very chic … In the same way, the “how much you measure, just” asked a small man. So take a little height and be more distinguished (e).
HOW WAS YOUR EX?
His ex will have plenty of time to wreak havoc in your story (if history there is), no need to leave THE subject who is angry at the first appointment.
YOU BELIEVE IN GOD ?
Like politics, religion is likely to create tension. Not being on the same wavelength may suggest that the couple has no chance, even before learning more about the other.
YOU’LL LATE THE FIRST EVENING?
If money is taboo, sex is of course twice as much. By daring, you’ll be all wrong: because if she does not sleep the first night, she may feel very offended, and if she sleeps the first night, your question will surely change her mind …
WHAT IS THE LAST TIME YOU HAVE LOVED?
Another naughty question that may cost you dearly. First, because it’s not very chic, and then because it does not concern you at all (we remind you that you see it for the first time).
DO YOU TELL ME?
Do you really think that if she / he does not intend to remind you he (she) will tell you? And if on the contrary, he (she) wants to remind you, maybe after your question, he will have less desire, at once …
CAN I KISS YOU ?
Cherry on the cake, pompon on the big top, the “I can kiss you” is a magic killer. Do you want to kiss him? Kiss her (the). And if he (she) pushes you, too bad, it’s the game. And the game is well worth the candle.